Some bumps in the road

It’s Friday, and I’m feeling a bit grumbly. Part of the reason is because I’m cold. The temperature is finally getting up to 68 degrees in the house, but it’s taken a long time. I noticed last week that the burner on the heater would come on but the fan would not blow the heat into the rooms. I pointed this out to Terry a few times with the admonition to call a serviceman to check on it. He didn’t. This morning the blower would not come on at all and the temperature remained at 66 degrees (we usually keep the temperature at 70 degrees during the winter; 80 in the summer). Finally, this morning, Terry called the company that installed the system back in 1997. The first open time for a service call is next Wednesday.

Another reason I am grumbly is that I have a terrible headache that has annoyed me since the middle of the night. No pain medicine seems to be touching it as it is sinus pressure caused by another change in the barometer. We have had all these storm fronts blowing through but we have gotten only a half inch of rain from them. They just make the barometer go up and down which plays havoc with my sinuses.

The Fresno police reported on Wednesday that they have taken 500 guns off of the streets in the last month. Then, yesterday a local gun store is robbed and 50 guns are taken. It is a never ending battle here, what with all of the gang activity. A park, just two blocks from the school where I am chaplain, had a shootout on Tuesday. Gang members were firing their weapons from the top of the children’s playground equipment. Buildings and cars were shot up, but no one seems to have been hurt. This time. Earlier in the week a 16-year old girl was caught in the crossfire of a drive by shooting in another part of town. More reason to grumble.

I see Michael (not his real name) every day I do my chaplain duties. He works in the cafeteria, at which he is very good. He is often in the office, in what I assume to be a time-out situation, as he wanders and does not do as his teacher wishes. Today, as I sat for a moment to catch my breath after telling stories in two classrooms, and before heading home, there was Michael, this time with the principal. The principal who seemed stressed beyond usual. She was awaiting an ambulance to pick up a child who had suffered a severe asthma attack. Michael needed supervision back to and in his classroom so I said I would go with him and stay with him the rest of the afternoon.

Michael is in second grade so I would normally not be working with him. However, he desperately needs help. His home life seems to be chaotic. He is very smart and was able to do the math work very quickly, without the teacher’s instruction. He is, however, totally disorganized. He doesn’t know where his supplies are located or his workbooks. He is scattered between two desks. He must have a person, a one-on-one, to keep him focused on the task at hand. How does this happen, though? I pondered this all the way home, even as I passed by the park where the police had parked a squad car and the city was installing new cameras to catch any future gang-land shooters. One child, in so much need of help, up against a whole city that needs care and attention.

On a much more minor note, but something that made me grumble, I didn’t remove something from my pocket and in doing a washer load of trousers this morning, found the entire load covered in a fine pink and white lint. Fortunately, the dryer seems to be taking care of removing the detritus.


7 responses to “Some bumps in the road

  1. stay sane in this crazy world! Awful about the washing glad you figured that out.

  2. I just read that the flu season has started in earnest, and that one of the strains has mutated and will not help those who get it. I just looked at flu symptoms and one is a headache, chills and fever, and muscle aches. If you start to feel those, call your doctor, okay? It could be the flu. 😦

  3. Mama said there’d be days like that…

    I hope you aren’t getting sick. Thank you for the work you do with youth.

  4. Thank you, all, for the concern. Yes, I have heard that this year’s flu shot will probably not cover the flu that will be going around. Not good news for those of us working with sneezing, coughing, children.

    This recent headache, though, was just a 15 hour pressure headache caused by the severe changes in the barometric pressure. I was okay by 4:30 but that was too late to go out for the errands I had planned for this morning. Maybe tomorrow.

  5. My goodness, when it rains it pours.
    I wish guns would be banned throughout the world.

  6. In my experience, kids who can’t focus have larger issues at home. Yes, so much need and it isn’t getting better anywhere. Drugs and alcohol are major culprits.

  7. Sounds like an overload of trouble. Hope you are feeling better by the time you read this.

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